So last night I went to a hockey game with a coworker and we had a blast. On my way to drop her off I texted nye guy to see if I could drop by since I was in town. Turns out he lives a block away from my coworker. I ended up spending the night... and learning quite a few things.
He's from New England. He's 36. He makes fresh squeezed OJ in the morning for me. He's very, very funny and has a quick wit. He's a perfect gentleman, courteous, considerate. The catch? He sucks in bed. I have whiskers burns on the most precious part of my anatomy now. Physically I shall recover very soon. I may hopefully recover from this mentally one day. After breakfast we drove to work together in my car with plans to rendezvous after work.
So... this wonderful guy and I need to have a talk. I'm not looking forward to it. Sex is very important to me. If he can't get me off soon, our sojourn together will end a premature death. And it would be a crying shame. How often does a girl run into a guy who likes to cook and pamper a woman? He heats up his apartment for me cause I get cold easily, while he professes to love the cold, gets extra blankets for me, offers me his good non-guy shampoo even. It's all wonderful icing, but no cake.
O.O
I consulted helo guy and he suggested I teach. Framing is key he says. Be honest, help him make it better by coaching. This sounds like a project to me. Classical conditioning helo guy advises. I can still go fishing and employ multiple strategies. "I would set out the training plan with nye guy for a little more long term rewards. Kind of like investing in a mutual fund vs a stock. Keep searching though. Find a good short term investment." lmao!
"LOL! You are a doll! Talk stox to me baby!" was my reply.
Aucun commentaire:
Enregistrer un commentaire